About

Rites of the Heart is committed to co-creating sacred containers that are authentic, accessible, and transformative.

There is no right or wrong way to connect to that which is greater than yourself.

There is only your way.


Elizabeth Suzanne Shapiro, LCSW

I am devoted to the co-creation of a more compassionate world - an intimate revolution rooted in a culture of care - where all beings are deeply in love with themselves, one another, and our more-than-human kin. A world in which we honor our grief as holy, tend to our dreams with intention, and gather to sing the songs of our ancestors. A world where spirit is deeply felt and known, and where the presence of divine love is recognized within and all around us. I hold ritual as a sacred practice - one that reconnects us to the divine both within and beyond the self. Through this connection, we gently shed the layers of the false self and remember how to inhabit and love who we truly are.

 
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Elizabeth is queer Jewish neurospicy therapeutic ritualist & mother, born and raised in New York City. Her developmental and educational experiences were embedded within multicultural environments, which contributed to an early and sustained engagement with marginalized communities. She graduated with a Masters in Social Work from the Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College in New York City in 2014. She completed her undergraduate studies in Psychology at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia in 2009. She is a certified Yoga Teacher and Master Level Reiki Practitioner and Alchemical Healing Practitioner. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and clinical supervisor.

Elizabeth has over a decade of experience supporting individuals, families, and communities in navigating mental health challenges and the enduring impacts of trauma. She maintains a strong commitment to decolonizing her therapeutic practice and advancing equity in mental health care. Her work centers on supporting those impacted by systemic oppression in contextualizing their experiences, strengthening resilience, and engaging in meaningful, culturally responsive, whole-person healing.

Elizabeth is the steward of The Sanctuary and Red Tent in Eugene, where she facilitates circles, workshops, and immersive courses. These offerings explore themes of feminine empowerment and initiation, ritual and self-compassion, grief work, shadow integration, and the reclamation of imagination as a pathway for personal and collective transformation. 

Elizabeth completed a vision fast in Death Valley, Nevada in 2015 as a personal initiation connecting her deeper to herself, her earth mother, and the Great Mystery. Rites of the Heart was part of the medicine received during her time on the land. Elizabeth later spent six years as a guide supporting wilderness-based rites of passage for adolescents, supporting youth navigating connection to self, connection to spirit, and connection to the natural world.

Elizabeth draws inspiration from her ancestral spiritual teachings and technologies. She is deeply committed to the reclamation of meaningful rites of passage, and the creation of inclusive, accessible approaches to spirituality and healing. 


 
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Why Self Love matters

"Caring for myself is not self-indulgence. It is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare." - Audre Lorde, A Burst of Light (1988)

When we take the time to tend our own tender hearts, we expand our capacity to hold the suffering of the heart of the world. When we love and care for ourselves, we become more resourced to dismantle oppressive systems and tend to collective liberation. I am devoted to the co-creation of a more compassionate world—an intimate revolution rooted in a culture of care—where all beings are deeply in love with themselves, one another, and our more-than-human kin. A world in which we honor our grief as sacred, tend to our dreams with intention, and gather to sing the songs of our ancestors. A world where spirit is not abstract, but deeply felt and known, and where the presence of divine love is recognized within and all around us.

When we truly love ourselves, things in our life work better. When we love ourselves, when we live in integrity, our words and actions are in alignment with our heart. We honor our standards for living and loving. Only when we love ourselves are we able to give and receive love. Only when we embody our standards for healthy partnership within ourselves, are we able to be in truly nourishing intimate relationships with others.

Love Always Wins.

No Wrong Way Rituals

Ritual is called for because our soul communicates things to us that the body translates as need, or want, or absence. So we enter into ritual in order to respond to
the call of the soul.
― Malidoma Patrice Somé,
Ritual: Power, Healing, & Community

Ritual is your birthright.

Ritual intelligence is engraved in your bones, waiting to be remembered.

Ceremony is anything you decide is precious. It is your attention and your intention that gives the ceremony power. There is no right or wrong way to engage in self generated ceremonies of the heart. There is only your way. Your vision. Your intention. Your unique way to connect to that which is greater than yourself.

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It is through ritual that we know spirit. It is through ritual we know ourselves.

Your soul can’t wait any longer.

Are you ready to embody your divine wisdom?

 

Are you ready to awaken your ritual intelligence?

Let me know how I can support you and your precious heart
in this experience of being human.